Rose, a very good female friend of mine, is approached by guys mostly. Her idea of a perfect day is to have fun with someone with genuine feelings to have a good interaction with her. But she insists that a guy should not make a move so early.
Rose is incredibly attractive. So she did not even remember the number of guys who were chasing her and asked her out in a day.But she recognizes that it is a common mistake that 99% of guys commit. She criticized usually that most guys are nervous, do not make good eye contact, and worse, not even listen to what Rose says in her conversation.
Now, it is a crucial issue, but I know that this is not really a "PROBLEM"; All reflects the way most of us think.
Let me explain a little further.
Imagine the time when women and men lived in caves. During this time, there was no date and no worries about relationships.Everything was people cared for their survival; However, even in those days wanted men always beautiful females.It was a very natural process for them to comply with beautiful women; For ages meant beautiful women good sex and good looks, the children of men; on the contrary, were attracted to women to men who were smarter and stronger so that they can have better chances for survival and safety.
I'm trying to make here is that since that age, men have developed a natural instinct to hunt beautiful women.And sometimes men are so desperate to find them, that they do not like anything else, when they get a chance to meet them, but the way to get them as soon as possible.
It is now a big mistake!
To win the approval of more women and to be extremely successful in dating, you need to re-program you.You need to start thinking in the right way to maximize your chances of other guys.
Women want men to explore and talk about their lives, their dreams, friends, family, their time at work, etc., and also tell you about themselves; and When a girl gets to know you better, she is ready to move to a relationship and all credentials; for a woman is the friendship which provides a base for an intimate relationship; But friendship has no meaning for them; however, this is exactly the opposite of how most of us think and work.
So, next time when you have a woman trying to talk about her and tell her about yourself ... listen to her, Let her speak carefully; her heart and share with you all her dreams and see the magic!
